Monthly Archives: May 2020

Desert Island

Time on our hands

As we take some enforced time away from our normal routines, take time to remember, reflect and reset.

I am a regular listener to Desert Island Discs on Radio 4. I love to treat myself to a really good cup of coffee and 30 minutes sitting down listening to someone else’s life story, I guess it is one of my guilty pleasures.

The concept is very simple, the presenter Kirsty Young prepares to cast away the interviewee with only a few creature comforts. You are given the King James Bible, the complete works of Shakespeare and one book of your choice along with a luxury item and your number one choice from a selection of 8 pieces of music that capture your life. Then that is you on a desert island for all eternity! But do we really need anything more? There is much to be said for a simple life, we are surrounded by ‘things’ that we think we need but we could probably all get by with less than we do.

However, it isn’t just about simplicity it is about reflection and looking at what has really made a difference to you in your life. We live at such a pace in the modern world it is often hard to find time to reflect and think about what we are proud of, happy with or unhappy with. Until we know the answers to this we cannot live a full and happy life.

I have always been an avid reader so my choice of book has to be something large and varied; my choice would be the complete works of Dickens. Here I can read new books I haven’t found time for yet and rediscover old favourites such as the heroic Nicholas Nickleby.

Music becomes more difficult to select as it has played such a large part in my life and certain songs carry memories or can change my mood all of a sudden. Then of course my choices change very often when I listen to the program and hear other peoples’!
So here goes with my current selection:

Book – Complete works of Charles Dickens
Luxury item – coffee machine

My 8 discs
Born to Run – Bruce Springsteen
I Want You – Bon Jovi
Intermezzo from Cavalleria Rusticana – Mascagni
Fly me to the Moon – Frank Sinatra
Mazurka from Copellia – Delibes
Jump –Van Halen
Xanadu – Olivia Newton John
Can’t’ Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley (the one I would cling to most).

It is a thoughtful and satisfying thing to do and focuses you on what you like about your life. Why not give a go and decide on your own Desert Island choices?

Or look on line and see what your heroes have picked, there are certainly some surprises and a real insight into the meaning of a life.

photo of Elvis Presley CD and books
My Desert Island choices
Chair

The chair is a killer

As we are all now spending more time in our living rooms it is a good time to remember the mantra ‘the chair can kill so don’t sit still.’

There was a really interesting episode of Horizon on the BBC exposing ‘The Truth About Exercise’. It raised some excellent and thought provoking points, not least that a ‘one-size fits all’ approach to exercise is not the way forward, we need less generic fitness manuals. As we all respond to and like different things so it will be with our chosen form of exercise.

However, for me the most striking point was raised by Dr. James Levine (Mayo Clinic) who claimed with a touch of hyperbole that “the chair is a killer”. He is advocating a ‘get moving stay active’ approach to health.

In the episode presenter Michael Mosley tested the theory for 24 hours. He admitted to a sedentary job and similar lifestyle so for the 24 hours he moved about as much as possible, standing when talking on the telephone, taking stairs instead of lifts, walking whenever possible.

Just everyday activities we can all take advantage of if we put our minds (and bodies) to it. In the one day he burned an extra 500 calories – no sweat, no cost, no extra time, very little effort but a great result.

By simply moving more in our daily lives we could see real health benefits, more so if we are currently stuck in a sedentary way of life.

I accept that this is a limited form of exercise but it is an excellent starting point for anyone new to exercise and a way to increase for those of us already convinced of the benefits of staying fit and active.

So my challenge to us all echoes Dr. Levine – my new mantra is ‘the chair can kill so don’t sit still’. I invite you to join me.

*If you have any medical condition or are unused to physical exercise it is advisable to consult your physician before beginning any exercise programme.

Seville

Holiday health – Well being

Well we’re not exactly on holiday but many of us have more time at home than we usually do. As for the amazing key workers who are still at work doing such a phenomenal job please still try to be kind to yourself. These are very unusual times that most of us never thought we’d see in our lifetime and using this time for renewal is crucial.

I am not necessarily talking about learning a new skill or learning to speak a foreign language, although both of these would be a good use of the time, but learn to relax and take care of your own well being. The biggest aim is to get through this safely and with our well being intact and preferably improved.

This is a blog post from summer 2015 when we were all looking forward to sunshine holidays and a break from routine. Well, no holidays this year but certainly a break or change of routine. The chance to relax and revitalise on holiday is of vital importance but maybe we can follow the same rules and improve our well being at home.

Review, renew, resolve
Holidays allow us time to reflect – on life and on work. Do you always get the balance right? Giving yourself some me time allows your mind to switch off and can bring clarity to your thoughts. Just allow the thoughts to come and go, maybe make a note of some insights to come back to once the holiday time comes to an end. Don’t address everything at once or you could use all your time off thinking about when you get back.

Think about any resolutions or goals you had for the new year. Have you achieved them and need new ones? Are you not there yet and need to redefine? Take this opportunity to look at the balance of your life and make sure it is just how you want it. This is the only life you have right now and no one else can make it how you want, you have to do that for yourself.

If finding your way is too difficult or you don’t know what you want, try different things until you find your niche or read so-called ‘self help’ books for inspiration. Here are a few suggestions.

Inspiration
* Chicken Soup for the Soul
* Jonathan Livingston Seagull, Richard Bach
* Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl
* The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho
* Five People You Meet in Heaven, Mitch Albom
* The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry, Rachel Joyce

Self Help
* The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, Robin Sharma
* The Road Less Travelled, M. Scott Peck
* The Chimp Paradox, Dr. Steve Peters

Biographies to inspire and entertain
* How to be Champion, Sarah Millican
* Becoming, Michelle Obama
* My Story, Jo Malone
* Steve Jobs, Walter Isaacson

For more prescriptive inspiration why not read autobiographies of your hero or favourite sports person? There are some amazing stories out there from people just like you, be one of them!

Helen in lockdown
Me in lockdown
Helen in coffee shop
In a coffee shop – remember those days?!